I think I mentioned this in an earlier religion thread in here, but I was wondering if you had ever investigated the Anglo-Catholic tradition of the Episcopal Church? As the Episcopal Church is officially decentralized, there are any number of individual churches that follow a spectrum of conservative to liberal with ceremonies ranging from pre-Reformation traditional to Tridentine Latin to the present Novus Ordo Roman Catholic mass, with some even having specific Marian devotion. It's a unique tradition unto itself that appeals to many for vastly different reasons, but often for the desire to have "Catholicism" without the Vatican, and reading your interests above makes me think you might be interested.
I've been investigating it myself. A good number of years away from formal services has been, on balance, valuable for me to examine what it is I've been looking for. Like Anne, I'm unsure that I can, in good conscience, return to Roman Catholicism currently, but I think I've devoted enough time to pondering my faith alone.