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Old 12-20-2012, 03:37 AM   #76
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If you want to discuss psychiatric medication, then why are you making outrageous and moronic claims like "People should love their kids, rather than send them to a psychiatrist"?

Been there, done that. My parents sure loved me, I got attention whatever. But that sure as hell didn't save my childhood. While going to a psych probably would have.
It was a bythought. At the end. An "advice."
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OKay, you want me to turn things around. Enough of my nonsense.

Let's play thought puzzles... it's more creative and practical and freeforming.

Here's a few thought puzzles:

1.) You were the most paranoid person in the town and everyone knows it. You walk into a public restaurant with your parents, and you hear "there's the most paranoid person in the world." ... Are you really paranoid?

2.) If you woke up and found yourself in a mental institution, can anyone get out?

3.) Ok, more serious and practical: You're depressed and a loner. You're incapable of making friends, but want to. You're socially awkward.

Your neighbors are scared of you because they think you're a loner and probably do something one day. You're just as scared of them as they are of you... What do you do?

///going to take a nap.

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Old 12-20-2012, 04:04 AM   #78
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If you want to discuss psychiatric medication, then why are you making outrageous and moronic claims like "People should love their kids, rather than send them to a psychiatrist"?

Been there, done that. My parents sure loved me, I got attention whatever. But that sure as hell didn't save my childhood. While going to a psych probably would have.
Ok, I've channelled my unconscious, and I can finally articulate why I said it.

Trauma

Kids get sexually abused by their relatives or close family friends, and parents won't believe it.

Kids get emotionally bullied/ostracized, nobody steps up, school authorities won't deal with it, parents won't believe it.

Kids facing some kind of trauma that is never acknowledged by their parents. Their parents don't take the kids' issues seriously. Bam! Kids grow up acting out and f'd up, or they end up through the mental health system and doped up.

Parents who don't deal with/take kids' issues seriously.

Does that satisfy you peeps? Serious issue or nonsense?
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Make that a litmus test for crazy people, and I have been outed here as crazy.
You're assigning opinions to others that they haven't actually voiced. No one is calling you crazy.

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People understandably want to commiserate on experiences with meds and family and take a more grateful stance, go start another thread.
Their commiseration is in direct response to an assertion you made in your opening arguments, so it is pretty on topic.

Look, if you are honestly starting a thread in FYM with the expectation that only a narrow vein of topic is to be allowed, and dissent is unwelcome, then you're in the wrong place.
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Ok, I've channelled my unconscious, and I can finally articulate why I said it.

Trauma

Kids get sexually abused by their relatives or close family friends, and parents won't believe it.

Kids get emotionally bullied/ostracized, nobody steps up, school authorities won't deal with it, parents won't believe it.

Kids facing some kind of trauma that is never acknowledged by their parents. Their parents don't take the kids' issues seriously. Bam! Kids grow up acting out and f'd up, or they end up through the mental health system and doped up.

Parents who don't deal with/take kids' issues seriously.

Does that satisfy you peeps? Serious issue or nonsense?
You make this sound like an either/or situation: either parents listen and raise their kids well, or they don't and just send their kid to a psych for meds.

I don't think you'll get any argument here that it's wrong if parents don't even attempt to understand what their kid is going through and just put them on meds.

But that's not the only choice. What of those parents who do listen, who do believe, who do work with their children and then also end up going the route of meds?

You're ignoring those who have a mental disorder that was not brought about by environmental influences or lack of involved parenting.
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Look, if you are honestly starting a thread in FYM with the expectation that only a narrow vein of topic is to be allowed, and dissent is unwelcome, then you're in the wrong place.
People have stories. Personal, tragic stories; some shared in this thread. They all seem to suggest that there was something mental to begin with.

Okay okay. Nothing new I haven't heard before. No offense, people. Same old same old. Good for you they're working. Tough it's not. Everyone shares similar stories.

I started this thread to suggest there are possibly other causes to mental illness.

Besides medication, a mild traumatic brain injury to a toddler (running into something, bump on the head) can significantly change the child's behavior and make them aggressive. That seemingly small incident can have an effect for years. (Daniel Amen, MD "Change Your Brain, Change Your Life")

I can point out other cases in "history".

In the late 19th century, French physician Benedikt Morel discovered an increasing number of adolescents and young adults were exhibiting what he called "precocious dementia", and it spread across Europe. Asylums were filled with these young adults and kids. In 1920s, Carl Jung gave it a new name "schizophrenia." Then, ahem, Dr. Healy received data figures from 19th century North Wales that suggested lead poisoning may be one of the two leading causes, the other being childbirth methods by male obgyns with anesthesia and forceps. (Here's a freebie link: The Madness of Young People | Mad In America

I can bring up the story of German psychiatrist Emil Kraepelin who in the late 1800s researched the outcomes of patients at an aslyum in Estonia. He observed and identified patients who suffered what he called "dementia praecox", also came to be known as "schizophrenia", basically more or less similar to the "precocious dementia" mentioned in the previous paragraph. But in a 1990 article British historian Mary Boyle "convincingly argued" in her article "Is Schizophrenia What It Was? A Re-analysis of Kraepelin's and Bleuler's Population" that many of Kraepelin's "dementia praecox" patients were undoubtedly suffering from a viral disease, encephalitis lethargica, which in the late 1800s had yet to be identified. (I'm partially plagiarizing verbatim Whitaker right now without quotes. It's on page 90-91. Sorry.) Basically. the encephalitis lethargica patients got lumped with the schizophrenics, and once they were separated from that group, the patient group that remained was no longer "dementia praecox group."
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Basically: "The referents of schizophrenia gradually changed until the diagnosis came to be applied to a population who bore only a slight, and possibly superficial, resemblance to Kraeplin's." says Boyle.

In other words, what was a whole other disease got whittled down to Kraeplin's narrow definition of what he called "dementia praecox"/schizophrenia.

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I can also bring up Whitaker's story (I'm paraphrasing to the best of my ability, which probably sucks) that around 1970s, there was a politics going around in psychology (in particular, psychoanalysis) and psychiatry. Psychoanalysis was on the wane, and psychiatry has rising. But psychiatry did not earn the same respect as the mainstream medical field. So psychiatry had to win approval for being legitimately biomedical. While DSM-II focused on "neurosis", DSM-III was arbitrary compiled to serve as "a defense of the medical model as applied to psychiatric problems." (quote from Colubmia U Robert Spitzer who spearheaded the project) DSM-III became their bible and key to legitimacy.
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"But as critics at the time noted, it was difficult to understand why this manual should be regarded as a great "scientific" achievement. No scientific discoveries had led to this reconfiguring of psychiatric diagnoses. The biology of mental disorders remained unknown, and the authors of DSM-III even confessed that this was so.

APA President Theodore Blau wrote that DSM more of a "political position paper for the APA than a scientifically-based classification system."(Whitaker 269-270)

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I can bring pull up all these documentations (though by now, my cynism tells me no one will bother reading citations).

And after all these citing documentation I've given in these posts, what do I get? ... Your/their disagreement. Not mine.

I'm not disregarding people's protest about their experiences. All I'm saying is that there is possibly a different angle to mental illness no one has really thought to examine or have known about.
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You're right, I sucked up the air when I started this thread. (Not being sarcastic.)

This thread is for those with disappointment with psychiatric medication.

I'm already sick of people just coming in to chastise repetitively the same thing. But it's their right to an opinion.

Sure, call me irresponsible for saying/warning to stay away from psychiatric medications. Make that a litmus test for crazy people, and I have been outed here as crazy.

People understandably want to commiserate on experiences with meds and family and take a more grateful stance, go start another thread.

Since I'm the only one who's upset with the issue and brought it up, go lock this thread.
You start a thread on a controversial subject and don't like the responses. Guess what: that's the Internet. To make matters worse, you don't seem open to different view points and act like everyone else isn't as enlightened as you.

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Ok, I've channelled my unconscious, and I can finally articulate why I said it.

Trauma

Kids get sexually abused by their relatives or close family friends, and parents won't believe it.

Kids get emotionally bullied/ostracized, nobody steps up, school authorities won't deal with it, parents won't believe it.

Kids facing some kind of trauma that is never acknowledged by their parents. Their parents don't take the kids' issues seriously. Bam! Kids grow up acting out and f'd up, or they end up through the mental health system and doped up.

Parents who don't deal with/take kids' issues seriously.

Does that satisfy you peeps? Serious issue or nonsense?

Eh, but wouldn't sending these kids to a psychiatrist actually help them?

I don't get your point, really. In all these cases, talking about it with a psych would help. Even if their parents love them and care for them, you can't expect your child to handle this on their own. And parents can only do so much.

If the parents don't deal with shit seriously, they won't send them to a psych either way, so I once again don't get your point.

And most kids facing trauma don't end up doped up, actually. Most traumas are solved by therapy, rather than medicine.
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Sorry to bring it up again but I think that's accurate, and it is Cruise like. Sorry. Don't mean to be glib but it is.
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You start a thread on a controversial subject and don't like the responses. Guess what: that's the Internet. To make matters worse, you don't seem open to different view points and act like everyone else isn't as enlightened as you.

I don't think I've ever complained or felt upset about starting this thread.

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Eh, but wouldn't sending these kids to a psychiatrist actually help them?

I don't get your point, really. In all these cases, talking about it with a psych would help. Even if their parents love them and care for them, you can't expect your child to handle this on their own. And parents can only do so much.

If the parents don't deal with shit seriously, they won't send them to a psych either way, so I once again don't get your point.

And most kids facing trauma don't end up doped up, actually. Most traumas are solved by therapy, rather than medicine.
I've met quite a few people in college who claimed they've been sexually abused as a child and didn't put the two and two together until years later. Then their parents didn't believe them by then, and the wild teen life--ravin' drugs promiscuity... became clear to them.

Some parents don't have the patience to put up with their kids drama. I've met some of these kids in group therapy in high school. Normal kids who were sent to group therapy because the parents somehow thought they were up to no good and the parents didn't know how to deal with their kids. Their kids ended up on Prozac for no reason.

Movie reference: Ever seen Charlie Bartlett.. don't know if it has basis in reality, but the movie's about a single mom who has her teenage son to see a shrink so that the doc can raise a perfect child without problems. (Dad was in jail for embezzlement).
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Sorry to bring it up again but I think that's accurate, and it is Cruise like. Sorry. Don't mean to be glib but it is.
Cruise like, schmooze like.

I can say adding the fighting words up... more people got thinking that I'm in protest against them than vice versa, like I'm all upset people aren't believing me.

I'm not upset. I'm just annoyed people parroting like a parody of an SNL parody.
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