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Old 12-22-2010, 08:58 PM   #241
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I don't see how a school could be responsible for someone's suicide, but I do agree that the RA's failure to act was an epic fail.

I doubt the family will get anywhere with this lawsuit. How do they know that removing their son from that environment would've made the situation any better. Their son may have committed suicide anyway, as the emotional damage had already been done. Just my theory.
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Old 12-22-2010, 10:58 PM   #242
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I don't think they are explicitly blaming the suicide on the school, but the fact that the RA knew the roommate had committed a crime against him and failed to act.
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Old 12-22-2010, 11:28 PM   #243
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I don't think they are explicitly blaming the suicide on the school, but the fact that the RA knew the roommate had committed a crime against him and failed to act.
exactly. just theorising here since we'll never really know how everything went down and how he felt, i think the fact that he went to his ra and it was just ignored made it a lot worse, if not the final straw for him.
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read this whole thread... it makes me feel so, so sick

i don't usually discuss political issues because i get irrationally upset with anyone that disagrees with me. but with stuff like this happening, i don't think it can be ignored. irvine put it perfectly - anyone perpetuating the belief that in one way or another homosexuals are inferior has blood on their hands. i don't necessarily have a problem with the church being against gay marriage within the church (though it seems like a rather silly issue to get upset about - out of all the wrongs going on in the world, is God really that against two people of the same gender who love each other getting married?), but the government institution of marriage is separate from the religious one. i don't get how anyone could be against civil gay marriage. it's a blatant abuse of human rights.

as for the original news story - no, the school is not responsible persay, but both the RA and the asshole roommate should be punished. gay or straight that invasion of privacy is unacceptable.

someone post a picture of puppies or something. this thread made me super depressed.
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Old 12-23-2010, 06:12 PM   #245
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someone post a picture of puppies or something. this thread made me super depressed.
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the government institution of marriage is separate from the religious one. i don't get how anyone could be against civil gay marriage. it's a blatant abuse of human rights.
In all seriousness, I agree. To me this is like a common sense, no-brainer, non-issue.....
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i don't necessarily have a problem with the church being against gay marriage within the church (though it seems like a rather silly issue to get upset about - out of all the wrongs going on in the world, is God really that against two people of the same gender who love each other getting married?)
Yeah, especially given certain other things certain churches are facing scandals about...ahem.

I've said this before, if it was found to be true that God would allow the Fred Phelps, the pedophile priests, of the world to go to heaven, but make gay people go to hell for being gay, then send me to hell as well, 'cause that setup would be all kinds of incredibly massive BS.

But I refuse to believe that that's how things would turn out if God, heaven, and hell were for sure true concepts/places.

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but the government institution of marriage is separate from the religious one. i don't get how anyone could be against civil gay marriage. it's a blatant abuse of human rights.
I wholeheartedly agree. I don't get it, either. I don't get why this, of all issues, bothers some people SO much. I don't get why it's so hard for people to mind their own beeswax and just...shut up and leave people alone.

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Gay people aren't promiscuous.
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I am astonished at how extensive you guys discuss events and news on this board.
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I have a puppy! He's a lover and doesn't give a flying fuck about someone's sexual orientation.

he's precious. i want to scratch behind his ears.

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Very interesting study! especially intrigued by the data about promiscuity. could help overcome the stereotype that gays are promiscuous, which is annoying because 1) theyre no more promiscuous than straight people and 2) regarding males, promiscuous straight males are awarded a pat on the back and a beer with their bros, while the promiscuous gay guys are the ones ruining our country or whatever.

unfortunately statistical analysis like this only goes so far. considering that 1 in 5 Americans believe Obama is a Muslim cactus, at least 20% of the country isnt terribly concerned with "facts"
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he's precious. i want to scratch behind his ears.
I love dogs. They're such sweet animals.

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Very interesting study! especially intrigued by the data about promiscuity. could help overcome the stereotype that gays are promiscuous, which is annoying because 1) theyre no more promiscuous than straight people and 2) regarding males, promiscuous straight males are awarded a pat on the back and a beer with their bros, while the promiscuous gay guys are the ones ruining our country or whatever.
Yep. Same double standard as the one that exists with women .

Awful lot of areas in the middle of the country that are at least halfway along that "gay curious" scale, if not higher . So much for that "middle America's conservative" stereotype.

I notice I share a lot more of the same potential "sterotypical" tastes as gay people in that "interests" section .

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unfortunately statistical analysis like this only goes so far. considering that 1 in 5 Americans believe Obama is a Muslim cactus, at least 20% of the country isnt terribly concerned with "facts"
To say nothing of that bit about the sun/earth question . Yeah, unfortunately, those who need to hear/read this information either won't, or if they are confronted with it, they'll just brush it off . Ignorance is still bliss to them, I guess.

But it's still good that this information is out there, just to have it confirmed and on the off chance someone reads it and does change their mind about homosexuality.

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What's even more interesting is that the posters in here hold normal discussion and debate without any kind of flaming or hypocrisy.
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Some, but not all. Just to warn you.
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The Middlesex County Prosecutor's Office today announced a 15-count indictment has been filed against a student alleged to have secretly viewed images of Tyler Clementi having an intimate encounter with another man just days before Clementi committed suicide. The defendant, Dharun Ravi, 19, of Plainsboro faces two counts each of invasion of privacy and attempted invasion of privacy, offenses that carry penalties of up to five years in prison, Prosecutor Bruce Kaplan said in a statement today. Also, Ravi was indicted on two counts of second-degree bias crimes and two counts of third-degree bias crimes. A grand jury also charged Ravi with three counts each of of tampering with evidence and hindering his own apprehension, and a single count of witness tampering, the prosecutor said.

Grand jurors found Ravi attempted to mislead investigators and witnesses in various ways
, Kaplan said. He said the grand jury determined Ravi deleted a post on Twitter that alerted others to view Clementi and another man during their second encounter in a university dorm room on Sept. 21, 2010. Ravi also tried to convince witnesses not to testify against him and provided investigators with misleading information, Kaplan said.
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Jane and Joe Clementi, Tyler's parents, today put out a statement through their attorney, Brown & Connery, LLP. "The grand jury indictment spells out cold and calculated acts against our son Tyler by his former college roommate," the Clementis said. "We are eager to have the process move forward for justice in this case and to reinforce the standards of acceptable conduct in our society."

Another student, Molly Wei, 19, of West Windsor, was also charged with invasion of privacy, but but her case was not presented to the grand jury "at this time," Kaplan said. He said the charges against Wei are pending and the case remains active, but he did not say why it was not yet presented to the grand jury.
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State Attorney General Paula Dow hailed the indictment today as step to stem bigotry. "This indictment is an important step in this heartbreaking case. New Jersey's bias law recognizes the terrible harm caused by acts of bigotry and hatred and imposes harsher punishment on those who commit such crimes," Dow said in a statement.
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