...I think it was dumb of her to make that comment. She should have just said, "I plan to adopt." Would we think differently of her if that's all she'd said? Why?
Sounds like you already have an answer to your own "Why?" in mind, since you also say you "think it was dumb of her to make that comment." Why do you think that? I already explained why I thought it was "dumb" (though that probably wouldn't have been my word choice...more like ill-advised, and a bit sad as well, given the context).
So she thinks being pregnant is gross and aesthetically unacceptable, is that really any worse than me saying I don't want to get pregnant because I am happy with my current lifestyle and a baby would be too much of an interruption?
I plan on adopting because I just don't want to go through a pregnancy and birth when there are plenty of babies that already need families. What does that make me?
The first example isn't really relevant, since the Jillian Michaels story has nothing to do with decisions of whether and when to become a parent as such--it's about attitudes towards women's bodies, and in particular, pregnant women's bodies. In the second example, it's unambiguous from the context that you're thinking only in terms of your image of your own body (if that, even...I get the sense you're really talking more about aversion to pain than body image?). Unfortunately for Ms. Michaels, the reality is that context matters, and--apologies for sounding like a broken record here, but--when you suggest in an interview with a national women's health magazine, while speaking in your capacity as a nationally prominent female fitness trainer to women from all walks of life, that you "can't handle" inflicting the cosmetic horrors of "
that" on your (literally, famously fit) body...well, guess what, some people are going to detect an insinuation or two that you perhaps find "
that" grotesque and alien in general, because the reality is that strand of thinking is out there, and just about any woman who's ever been visibly pregnant has experienced it firsthand. (Equally patronizing counternarratives of perpetually starry-eyed, tummy-patting anticipatory ecstasy--read "presumed temporary mental incompetence"--notwithstanding.) And, guess what, some of them aren't gonna like what they think they're hearing, either. It shouldn't have taken rocket science for Michaels to foresee that.