Aged 13: "I thought it would be good to have a baby"

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Hey corianderstem

The newspapers should not be selling this story in the first place
then little shits would not get a chance to cash in on such sad stories

And if Alfie is the father then as the older party, Chantelle has taken advantage of him therefore she is a slut and Alfie is a little shit (who should be given a vasectomy)
 
Yeah, because only crazy liberals take issue with people calling women - or 14 year old girls - sluts.

I am seeing red over reactions (not just here) that go from "wow, what a horrible situation" to "oh, other boys have come forward. She's a slut. No wonder!"
 
corianderstem said:
Yeah, because only crazy liberals take issue with people calling women - or 14 year old girls - sluts.
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Any girl who has a kid under the age of 16 is a slut - even if it was their first boyfriend
Its the OED definition

But she is only partly to blame
The parents should be doing hard labour as we speak
 
MadForIt said:
Hey corianderstem

The newspapers should not be selling this story in the first place
then little shits would not get a chance to cash in on such sad stories

And if Alfie is the father then as the older party, Chantelle has taken advantage of him therefore she is a slut and Alfie is a little shit (who should be given a vasectomy)
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is this the respect you were talking about? or maybe you were never taught manners and respect for others and yourself when you were growing up?
 
My 4 year old daughter recently asked me how babies get into tummies.

When I was 4, I came home from the neighbours with explicit porn photos in hand having been told (by older visiting kids) my parents engaged in these horrifying acts to create me. Refused to believe it. Pffft I was a gift from God. Confronted my mother in the kitchen with the photos. Did you do THIS??? lol

After that my parents bought me a book and always answered my questions in a no-nonsense manner. What I needed to know to make good and responsible decisions I learned at home, I was very fortunate.
 
Angela Harlem said:
is this the respect you were talking about? or maybe you were never taught manners and respect for others and yourself when you were growing up?
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I am well mannered to people who are polite
If someone treats me well i treat them well
If i meet CHAVS i am polite to them, but in reality i just think, how long will it be before that person is in jail?

When people do wrong, they should expect to be judged.
 
corianderstem said:
So when people act like dickheads on the internet, they should expect to be judged, too.
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I have never intentionally hurt anyone in my life - maybe in jest but hey i apologise if i think i am in the wrong

But that is a rare occasion

You can think of me whatever you like. I dont come on Interference to collect friends. If some people like me then great, if not, not the end of the world is it?
 
MadForIt said:
Any girl who has a kid under the age of 16 is a slut - even if it was their first boyfriend
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Hold on. Most people in the thread, including you, think there needs to be better sex education and that it is necessary. Yet you degrade this girl by calling her a slut when she could have been failed by the very lack of what you think is necessary? Isn't that a little hypocritical? :eyebrow:
 
Screwtape2 said:
Hold on. Most people in the thread, including you, think there needs to be better sex education and that it is necessary. Yet you degrade this girl by calling her a slut when she could have been failed by the very lack of what you think is necessary? Isn't that a little hypocritical? :eyebrow:
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By 15 people should have developed common sense
I blame both her and parents who are just happy to cash in on this story now
 
Good thing this kid isn't into Nirvana. Otherwise, he would have stabbed his girlfriend in a different way.
 
corianderstem said:
Oh, of course. No blame for poor little Alfie, right?



Oh, don't you start.
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As we were talking about Chantelle then i was only referring to her

As i previously said both kids and both sets of parents deserve all the flak in the world

I'd rather see them starve than receive taxpayers handouts

and the baby would be happy and healthy with foster parents
 
I'm not all that shocked at this story. The only thing really "newsworthy" about this story is that the boy is so young and looks even younger than he is. I mean let's face it, 15 year old girls have been having babies for a long, long, long time -- that's not different. And if that 13 year old boy looked older (say 15-17) instead of younger would they have gotten nearly as much attention? Would they have gotten any attention?

Yeah it's a bad situation for the kids (all three of them), but all the weeping and gnashing of teeth ("they've destroyed their lives!!" "she's a slut!!" "This world/country is going to Hell!!" etc.) is overdoing it. And a whole shitload of people in this world were born in less than good situations and have managed to live decent lives. They'll do ok...or they won't. Just like all the rest of us. :shrug:
 
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